Wireless networking for humans
I am sure we have some sort of wireless networking going on between us. Creating and maintaining rapport for instance.
My wife and I often say things at the same time and I am proud of that level of rapport. I also recently spent some time with a person I feel is quite negative in the way they speak, and I found it actually bring me down over a period.
I guess the answer is to spend more time with positive, loving people and ramp up the wireless networking. I went to an event last year and saw a guy called Gary Bertwhistle (I blogged about it). One thing I got from his talk was his comments about surrounding yourself with your own personal ‘council’ - a group of friends, colleagues, etc. who act as your own personal support group…
Surround yourself with the right people - attitude - you can’t do it alone. Who’s your council? Does it need an update? Recognise who it is and does it need changing - what’s missing? Are they holding you back? Are their people you can add who will help you ‘raise your roof’?
Some people scoff at happy people - “it’s not natural” - why is that? Certainly not people to include in my council I think…
Tags: General NLP talk