Comments on: Please give me a referential index http://www.nlpdiary.com/2008/05/01/please-give-me-a-referential-index/ every day experiences with neuro linguistic programming Thu, 20 Nov 2008 08:42:14 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: craigkillick http://www.nlpdiary.com/2008/05/01/please-give-me-a-referential-index/#comment-10 craigkillick Fri, 02 May 2008 09:38:25 +0000 http://www.nlpdiary.com/2008/05/01/please-give-me-a-referential-index/#comment-10 "Most missing content can be recovered by challenging unspecified verbs and nouns, and provoking clarification through paraphrase - or just repeating the last thing they said back with a question tonality." This tends to be the case... I've never heard of the verbal package - may need to do some digging. “Most missing content can be recovered by challenging unspecified verbs and nouns, and provoking clarification through paraphrase - or just repeating the last thing they said back with a question tonality.”

This tends to be the case… I’ve never heard of the verbal package - may need to do some digging.

]]> By: Daryll http://www.nlpdiary.com/2008/05/01/please-give-me-a-referential-index/#comment-9 Daryll Fri, 02 May 2008 09:36:35 +0000 http://www.nlpdiary.com/2008/05/01/please-give-me-a-referential-index/#comment-9 Is the full Meta Model a bit OTT for business application? For some people it takes some time to get past the content and listen for linguistic structure. Most missing content can be recovered by challenging unspecified verbs and nouns, and provoking clarification through paraphrase - or just repeating the last thing they said back with a question tonality. This is the basis for the Verbal Package (a derivative of the Meta Model) coded by John Grinder and Carmen Bostic St.Clair as a result of needing an effective listening pattern that businesses can learn FAST. It's a bit less precise than the Meta Model so it takes a couple more questions to get to what's really going on, but you arrive at the same place. When I teach it I add in challenging generalisations (especially modal operators). Is the full Meta Model a bit OTT for business application? For some people it takes some time to get past the content and listen for linguistic structure.

Most missing content can be recovered by challenging unspecified verbs and nouns, and provoking clarification through paraphrase - or just repeating the last thing they said back with a question tonality.

This is the basis for the Verbal Package (a derivative of the Meta Model) coded by John Grinder and Carmen Bostic St.Clair as a result of needing an effective listening pattern that businesses can learn FAST.

It’s a bit less precise than the Meta Model so it takes a couple more questions to get to what’s really going on, but you arrive at the same place. When I teach it I add in challenging generalisations (especially modal operators).

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